However, one thing is certainly included in this money consumption, and yet it nobody seems to be the least concerned about it. It is the fact that there are men who are willing to spend more money on women.
However, it all goes to the point that there can be “all fun and no work” game here. The fact is that the more you have your wealth, the more you have problems. In addition, if you get to spend your money on the wrong places and the wrong thing, you get into trouble more than you have ever expected.
Money and Women
With money ready to buy what you want in a split of a second, you thought that you could almost have everything. Therefore, when the time comes that you have to woo a particular woman that you really like; you suddenly have the propensity to splurge any amount just to keep her on your toes.
Sounds like a good idea? Think again.
In contrast to what most rich people know, money and women should never be mixed. They certainly do not go hand in hand.
In most cases, when women see you with lots of money, they only see your façade and not you. For instance, if they see you driving your Mercedes, women see you as someone who can give them a ride on that fancy car, and not someone whom they can talk with.
Of course, not all women are like that. But the fact that people, and not just women, tend to be overpowered by the great influence of money, they have this predisposition to crave for more.
But do not get me wrong. There is actually nothing wrong on spending money on women, especially if you have lots of it. It is okay if you want to buy your wife with things that she does not have. It is okay to buy your mate with the things she longs to have. But never spend more money than what she needs to have.
You see the point? Spending money on women is not bad, but spending too much money is the point where the wildest female class can drop dead at your feet just to hoard money from you.
Consequently, the problem with most men is that they want this kind of attention. In fact, according to some surveys, 51% of men in the U.S. are actually spending more than $100 in a month just for dates. That is relatively splurging more of their finances than they might have been earning.
The rule of the game is that you should never be caught up in it. The problem with most men is that they are so hooked up on women that they forget to control their finances. What happens next is that they continuously splurge gifts and drinks for women, and before they know it, all they have left in the fridge are some apples to last them a day.
So what do you have to do with women? Keep your profile relatively low. Do not show off your finances. Do not let your women know how much you can give them. Try to live a simple life. The problem is that once you are caught up in the sport, you will find it doubly hard to get out.
Money gets treacherous when men forget the real value of money. They tend to overlook the fact that money cannot buy everything, especially love.
So if ever you want to win a woman’s heart, it is best not to spend more money just to win her over. There are instances wherein women are irritated and turned off by the mere gesture of wooing them with gifts and money.
If this happens, you will be turned down instead of winning her attention and love. Or there are some cases wherein women might just give you the love and attention that you need from here only because she is after your money.
You see, money can definitely bring you into more trouble the more you use it.
As mentioned, spending money on women is not bad as long as you get smart doing it. Hence, try to take things little by little. The bottom line here is to have control in everything that you do.
Tuesday, June 18, 2013